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Taipei Here I Come!

At neighbourhood-doglover-friend D’s house. Came to borrow his PSP and universal adaptor. And play with Bubbles the dog and Joy, the other dog. They were having fun playing, growling, licking, pawing each other.
Tomorrow morning I will be off to Changi airport and woohoo, Taipei!!!! The long-awaited holiday!
Well, guess I will not be able to blog for a whole week. How? What if I get blog-withdrawal symptoms? What if I feel uneasy and need to get things off my chest? I guess there is always internet cafes and, L will sure have a laptop right? Don’t forget, I used to work in that company, and I know what they are entitled to. Hehehe…
Mr. A called while I was having dinner with D. He thought I was already in Taipei -_-”’
Ok, enough for tonight. See you guys in one week’s time!

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Broke!

One more day and I am off to Taipei. And I am not done packing yet. I don’t know what to pack. I opened my wardrobe last night, and discovered that I really have very boring clothes. All dark colours. All sama sama pattern.

Booooooooooooooooring….

Alternative: Buy in Taipei.

Good idea? Hehehe.

YL and I are all prepared to eat and shop, eat and shop. Spend money spend money.

When is my money gonna come in again?

And I have not done any CNY shopping. For clothes, for goodies, for gifts, for anything.

When is my money gonna come in?

I need to go for a haircut, manicure before CNY, go waxing.

When is my money gonna come in?

I need to bao angpow for my mum, change money for her to bao angpow.

When is my money gonna come in?

I need to send Elfie for his grooming, make sure he has enough food for CNY, taxi fare to send him to and fro when I bring him to parties.

When is my money gonna come in?

I am damn broke man!

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8 Ways

8 ways to reduce your frustrations, and not taking it out on others:

1. Drink lots of water.
2. Drink liang teh everyday. Cooling effect…
3. Bite your lips tight tight.
4. Clench your fists tight tight.
5. Cover your head with a pillow and scream into it.
6. Take a picture of whoever made you angry and use it as a dart board. Make sure no one is looking, and be sure to destroy all evidences if that someone is your superior.
7. Bang your head against the wall when no one is looking. Remember, bang the back of your head, so that people cannot see the bruise, and the bump is not so obvious.
8. Thump your chest like King Kong. It not only let you vent your anger, it may give you bigger breasts too… (Or flatter ones, for that matter)

Hope the above helps! ;p

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I ended my work week well, with work-related good news, which I cant reveal now. Then when I waited at the taxi stand, a Merz cab came! Woohoo!

What do you get when you mix half-cooked chicken wings, beer, red wine and Guinness stout together? Lots of puke at the end of the day.

Remember the thank-ah-yee BBQ that EH is throwing? That was on Friday. I did not want to go emptyhanded so I stopped by the petrol kiosk to pick up Ben & Jerry ice cream to brig to the BBQ.

Remember also that I suspected that it was gonna be a matchmaking session in the name of thank-ah-yee? Well, they still did not mention anything, but I think I guessed correct the motive, but the wrong guy ahaha! The cousins of the groom were not there. Instead a friend of his turned up.

The gals kept whispering behind my back and when I turned, they pretended to act normal. At times, I found that I was left alone with that guy (sorry, I really can’t remember his name). He is ok… I guess…

EH’s hubby passed me my first can of beer, and it kept coming after that. The rest of the gals did not drink, so it was only me and the guys. Beer after beer I downed, until we ran out of it. Red wine followed. Then when EH’s mother-in-law came home, we invited her to drink with us. She claimed that she only drinks Guinness, so out of politeness, I said its ok, we could drink with her. Little did I expect her to take me seriously, and took out 2 cans of Guinness stout, one for herself, one for me.

By this time, I was already half blur. I decided to stop, sought refuge in the kitchen, and got myself some cold water. I guess I was missing for some time, EH came to look for me and asked if I was ok. I could still talk normal and walk straight, so I guess if I did not tell her, they would never know that I am half drunk.

EH got her hubby to send me home. I was still talking and laughing with them, I remember. But when I got home, I only remembered washing my face, then running to the toilet bowl and puking my guts out. I can’t remember where I changed my clothes or how I got onto bed.

Hope I did not change in front of my bro…

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Saturday was the usual lazy Saturday. I brought Elfie for his annual jab early in the morning. Go early, come back early has always been my motto for such things ;p.

I met up with YL, supposedly to discuss about our Taipei trip. But then, we ended up pigging out at Novena Square -_-”’. We had Burger King, then headed to Hagan Daaz for ice-cream. Boy, am I glad that I am no longer working in Novena Square! Otherwise, I can be chopped, guaranteed, confirmed that I will continue growing sideways!

I told YL ‘我们不应该在一起,我们不可以在一起!’, otherwise both of us foodlovers will just keep on eating and eating non-stop. Then probably we will just die of over-eating ahahahaha!

But the good thing is, going to Taipei with someone who loves to eat and does not mind eating is better than going with someone who is always conscious of diet, and will keep stopping you from eating. What is the joy of going to a food paradise, when you can only look, and not eat the yummy food? That, is a torture ok!!!

After that, I went to do my nails. Yes I know I just did it, but then a lot of it has already chipped, and in my opinion is unsightly. And since I have grown my nails so damn long, I should make full use of them before they start breaking off, and make them look nice nice all the time, right?

Roses on my fingers!

Bigger but blur pic.

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Sunday was an early birthday celebration for Dajie. Gangster suggested going to the Cod Fish village place for Cod Fishhead Curry. Of course, it did not end there…
I nua the whole day, and finally forced myself to move my arse out of the house earlier to pick up something fro Dajie. I chose this colourful shell bracelet for her. I think she quite like it lah, just that it is too big for her. Well, I used my fat wrist as a guideline, so if I could wear it, means she should be able to also mah. I just did not think that it would be too loose for her -_-

We left Gangster to do the ordering of food, which was a mistake. She ordered and ordered, and well, I can’t put the blame totally on her, because the rest also kept going on and on. For 6 of us, we ordered, I think a total of 6 – 7 dishes. Although we ordered the smallest serving, it still came to be quite a lot. And we almost finished everything. So can you imagine how much we ate? And that is not all, Gangster suddenly said ‘Lets go for durian!’ Being an avid durain lover, of course I agreed immediately. And off to Geylang we went, for our durian session.

Gangster very funny. She told Uncle Durian ‘Uncle, 我要好吃的,不要骗我hor’. How come everyone will say that leh? If Uncle wanna 骗, he will come out with all sorts of excuses one lah. Even if not nice, he will insist that it is nice haha. But then, I must say the service at the durian place last night was quite good. There was ¼ of a durian that was not ripe, and they gave us another one to replace that ¼, so technically speaking, we had ¾ durian free kekeke. And one of the uncles saw that we could not finish, he offered to pack it into a box for us.

Overall, it was a good dinner, good dessert, and good catchup with my beloved sisters.

The next gathering – 2nd day of Chinese New Year at Director’s house. Gambling, more pigging out, more bitching, more laughing. Looking forward to it!

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Anything Happy?

I realized that I have been blogging a lot about my frustrations, anger, unhappiness, sadness, seldom about my happiness. I think I should blog more happy stuff, so that people reading this can be happy too.

But hor, right now, I can’t think of anything happy to blog about….

Lemme think… *thinks hard*

Oh yeah, my mum is back today! I can have a little more freedom, as in I can go out with friends more, have more flexible timing… not that it makes a lot of difference, but having one more person at home always makes me happier. 🙂

And I am only 5 days away from Taipei! YL and I talk about it everyday, discussing where else we can go, where we can give a miss, what we must definitely try, how much money to change, how much extra to bring…

Oh, and I finally changed my money yesterday! So happy that I found a moneychanger whose rate is higher than the one I wanted to go to – 21.13. Not bad right? Kekeke…

I was walking around after changing money. It was still early to go back to office. The I saw D, my neighbourhood doglover friend. He works in the vicinity. I wanted to go say hi, but he was so engrossed in his work that he did not even notice me walk to and fro in front of him. Bah… But then, 认真的男人最有魅力… Kekekeke… I waited a while for him to finish what he was doing. But people just kept walking up to him, so I gave up. I walked back to my office, and along the way, see if I could catch Bubbles, who was doing her manicure. And I saw her happily swinging round in her manicure chair, talking on the phone. I went in to fetch her back to office, because she forgot her pass. She proudly showed me her nails. Nice! *


But then I have phobia of crystals and diamantes, since the last time I did it. The poor manicurist spent like half an hour cleaning them off for me! So, unless I am getting married, or unless there is some important event that I have to doll up, I guess I won’t do it again.

Hmm… I really can’t think of anything very happy to blog about now. Maybe when I come back from Taipei, you will see a happier me!

* Bubbles very busy, no time to blog so I show her nails for her hehehe

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Do You Think…

…. The society can accept a child, whose parents are not married legally?

…. Environment will affect one’s happiness?

…. Surroundings can determine how you grow up?

…. Marriage is necessary?

These are things I was chatting with a friend about. We both had different viewpoints on all the above.

I felt a strong ‘no’ to the first question, and ‘yes’ to all the rest.

He said the exact opposite of what I did.

What say you?

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The aunty came close to me and whispered something in my ears. Very close. I don’t mean to say she is dirty or what, but I am not comfortable with that. After she left, I quickly used wet tissue to clean myself all over.

Is there something seriously wrong with me??????

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Not Meant To Be

Had lunch with Bubbles today. We have not had lunch together for a long time already. She had been traveling, and sick. Poor Bubbles…

We were chatting away happily, gossiping and bitching about the people we both know. Then she asked me about my Match.com guys. I just shook my head and told her they are all out for ONE thing. Which is, well, only part of what I am looking for kekeke. So easy meh? Say match then match?

I can’t reveal too much, because I suspect that one of them might be reading my blog still. All I can say is: None of them is my cup of tea.

I told Bubbles about my experience with them. She told me that maybe I formed my first impressions too fast, too early. Just like the case of Vince, her friend.

Remember we went to KL sometime in September last year, and met her friends there? Vince is one of them. He is the generous one that paid for almost everything there. I remembered he was driving and the four-letter-word just flowed out from his mouth very naturally every 10 seconds. Both of us thought that he was trying to impress, and very much like a spoilt brat. Bubbles, however remained in contact with him, and found that he is in fact, a very nice, mature, gentlemanly, homely guy. ‘Just the way you like,’ she said.

And I am not sure if I heard wrongly, she said that ‘He was trying to go after you’ or ‘I asked him to go after you’ (Bubbles did I hear wrong????). The night we went Velvet, he actually asked them to go dance so he can have some time to talk to me. But I was cold towards him, so nothing happened. *scratch head*

‘Too bad lah. If not you 钓到金龟婿了,’ she said.

Iiiiiiiiiiiiis it? Aiyah, too bad lor. Maybe it’s just not meant to be. *shrug*

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Revenge Must Be Very Sweet

I was trying to pack for my Taipei trip when I discovered… all my warm clothings were gone!

*Panic *

How? How how how?

The I remembered. Eldest sis ‘borrowed’ my warm clothings when she went on a trip to somewhere cold last year. I had very ‘generously’ agreed to lend her when she asked.

Alas, what a big mistake!

Some of you may know. My eldest sis has a habit of ‘borrowing’ clothes, and ‘helping me clear my wardrobe for new clothes’. But my clothes that have the fortune of being selected by her will vanish for… a few years if I am lucky, or forever if I am not.

Because, she stays in KL, and I, in Singapore.

Last time, whenever she came with her family, she will pack clothings for everyone, including the maid, except herself. Because she can help herself to my whole wardrobe. Home clothes, work clothes, casual clothes, and yes, even undergarments. I know, I know. Its damn unhygienic, but what can I do? I can’t stop her. I have to be at work. And I seriously do not mind sharing with her. The thing is, after wearing and washing, the clothes will somehow find their way to the bags and suitcase, and off they go, to KL. Even my undergarments.

Of course I jump. Because my sis, like me, have very good taste. Despite the fact that she is ‘helping me clear my wardrobe for new clothes’, the clothes that miraculously ‘disappear’ are mostly my newer clothes, that I like very much.

After my numerous nagging and screaming, she did finally realize that my wardrobe is not a Doraemon pocket, that will refill itself automatically whenever it is empty. She packs her clothes, and when she wears, I make sure the clothes go back in my wardrobe.

But then my warm clothings, unfortunately, never found their way back. Though I made her promise to send them back the next time she visits, I never saw them again since then. I nearly forgot that they were with her, until last night.

Ok, I admit. I did my fair share of clothes-borrowing when I was younger, and when she was the more ‘fashionable’ one. But then, I always washed and returned them after wearing, and she would still be able to wear them when she wanted to. Like I said, I do not mind sharing with her. But I so hate it when I can’t find them when I want to, or need to wear them.

It must be her revenge on me for borrowing her clothes during teenage days…

I think I will freeze in Taipei…

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Early in the morning, someone pissed me off big time.

Remember I mentioned earlier that I DON’T LIKE people touching me? Especially strangers? Now I add one more category – people I don’t like. Ok, I know I am being very bitch and petty, but well, that’s me, ok?

This woman, has irritated me a few times. She is the one who cannot tolerate a small piece of envelop on the tray beside her desk, which was meant for incoming documents for everyone to collect, anyway. She will haunt me with 5 calls in 1 minute, just to call me to collect the envelop.

This morning, when I went to collect some documents, she shouted my name (which she sometimes does, and in the end, she will say ‘Nothing. Cannot call your name is it?’), and asked me to go over to her desk. Reluctantly, I went over. She asked me to show her. I was lost. Show her what? Then she flung her hands. Just flung and flung and shouted ‘Show me show me!’.

So, she asked me to drop everything, and show her my hands. Without waiting for my hands to ‘arrive’ in front of her face, she grabbed them hard (and I mean real hard) and flipped them over to reveal my beautifully manicured nails.

‘Very nice hor.’ She was admiring my nails. ‘How much you do har? Very ex hor?’

I looked at her and refused to answer her questions. And she was still grabbing on to my hands HARD. I could not even move them. Yes I know I have beautiful nails. No need to admire until like that right?

When I could finally free myself, I quickly stepped away from her, grabbed my stuff and walked out of the door back to my level. First thing I did was to drop everything, went to the pantry, and scrubbed my hands with soap.

Yes, I HATE people touching me without my permission. So keep your distance until I give the go ahead. Otherwise, you bear the consequences.

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I Realized That…

…I risk losing my health, with the eating habits I have. I mentioned going for dinner last night with Gangster and gang. Before she came to fetch me, I was watching TV, and as I glanced at the clock, it was already 8.30. And I realized I was not hungry at all! Not forgetting that I did not have breakfast, and did not finish my salad which I had for lunch. And I am not one bit hungry. I know that a lot of people on diet will envy me, but then, I realized that this, might not be very good for my body. I thought of all the people who had everything, except health, and start to panic abit. I had wanted to just eat a little bit for dinner, before I had this thought. But after the realization, I decided to make myself eat more normal. I want to be healthy more than anything. Fat ma fat lor, hor?

…I have neglected many things and people in the course of doing some other things that I thought was important. I might have hurt some people around me, who cared for me, not knowing it myself. Or maybe I did know, but did not want to acknowledge it. I decided that I should start to be more mindful of the fact that there are people who love me as I am, and should not do stupid things to hurt them anymore.

…My bank account depletes faster than I blink my eyes. Ok, I take that back. Faster than… I make money. I do not have savings. Zero. Zilch. If something should happen (touch wood!) and I need money urgently, I will die very ugly. I should start my retirement planning. OK, I have insurance, but is that sufficient? I don’t think so. So, I better be good and stop spending every cent I earn every month.

…The crystals and beads on my nicely manicured fingers are dropping one by one (or two by two as a matter of fact when I checked everytime), and that this kind of nail art is only for Tai-tais and superstars, who do not need to do anything on their own. Sadly, I am neither. I need to do chores at home. I need to work on the computer a lot, which means a lot of typing. I need to handfeed my beloved Elfie. And thus, crystals and beads are just a waste of money. I should just stick to simple French, or painted nail art.

Ok, I shall start being good…… After my Taipei trip ;p

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Kawaii-ne!

I was about to leave office when Gangster msn me to arrange dinner. I had to run some errands then go home and feed my beloved Elfie before I could meet them, so I left first.

Running a little late, I called for a cab (It is near to impossible to get a cab at the taxi stand in the area I work at this hour). I waited for 2 minutes, before the taxi call canter called me to tell me that there is a change in taxi, for some reasons she did not tell me.

After 5 minutes, the cab arrived. I hopped in, and told the taxi driver my destination. He tried to make small talk.

‘The place you live in, very convenient hor. Very easy to get food’

‘Mmm’

‘The yong tou fu, very nice!’

‘Mmm’

‘Have you tried before?’

‘Mmm’

Anyone by this time should know that I am not interested to carry on the conversation. He stopped. I read my newspaper, and then looked out of the window.

Suddenly, I felt someone looking at me, in fact, for some time already. I glanced through the corner of my eye, and saw that the driver was checking me out through the rear mirror!

He saw me look at him and he smiled.

‘You look like Japanese girl hor. Cute! Hurhurhur.’

I glared at him.

‘Anyone tell you that before or not?’

I refused to answer him.

Please lor. Yes, when I was younger, alot of people said that I looked Japanese/Korean. But then, I just didn’t like the way he looked at me, and the way he said it, even if he meant it as a compliment.

So, do I look Japanese, still? ;p

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